When you make the decision to allow your loved one to die peacefully at home—either theirs or yours—the first thing that often comes to mind is:

“How do we set up the house?”

I want to reassure you:

You don’t need a perfect home.
You don’t need a guest room with an en-suite bathroom.
You don’t need fancy equipment or professional-grade caregiving supplies.

I have seen dining rooms transformed into the most beautiful, sacred spaces for a dying loved one.
I have seen family rooms become peaceful havens.
I’ve even seen beds set up in the corner of a den, divided by a simple sheet strung up for privacy—and it worked perfectly.

All you truly need is a space where your loved one can be safe and comfortable

Here is a simple, gentle guide to help you prepare your home with confidence and compassion

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Section 1 — Choosing the Right Space

The “right” room is the one that works for your family.

You do not need a perfectly staged space. What matters most is:

Access for Care

Think about whether you (or other caregivers) can easily reach both sides of the bed to reposition, bathe, or assist.

Ability to Hear Them

If the room is tucked away from the main living area, consider using a:

• Baby monitor
• Camera Monitor – I like this one
• Two-way speaker
• Monitor app

This prevents your loved one from calling out without being heard.

Creating Privacy

Even if you’re using a shared space, privacy is possible:

• Hang a lightweight curtain or sheet
• Use room dividers
• Close doors when providing personal care
• Add soft lighting to create a sense of calm

A peaceful environment matters far more than a perfect floorplan.

2. Safety Checklist

Safety brings peace for you and comfort for them.

• Remove throw rugs
• Clear pathways around the bed
• Add nightlights
• Keep cords tucked away
• Make sure the bed height feels safe
• No open flames/candles around oxygen.

At the bedside, keep:

• tissues
• water/ice chips (if still appropriate)
• medications
• a notebook for symptoms
• lip balm
• lotion
• the hospice number
• A Medication Log (check out my Free Resources Page)

Section 3 — Linens, Supplies & What to Keep Handy

Most families find these items helpful:

• washcloths
• wipes (Ask Hospice for these)
• gloves because nobody wants poop on their fingers.
• oral swabs (ask Hospice for these if needed)
• a small trash bag – grocery bags work great and they are free
• Extra Pillows & Blankets
• Multiple Sets of Sheets (3-4 sets) these are good sheets, a great price and they are white so you can bleach them.
• Mattress Protector – Especially if they are not in a Hospital Bed.
• Incontinence Pads & Under pads – You will want both Disposable ($$$) and Washable pads. Think “Layers of Protection”
• This last item is not a “must get” but its very helpful when your loved one is in bed all the time. A good mattress topper can make a hospital bed comfortable and help prevent bedsores. I personally use this one and its held up well. Remember a mattress protector.

I’ve listed many helpful items on the Products I Love page of this blog—things that truly make caregiving easier.

4. Create an Atmosphere of Peace

Your loved one can still feel the atmosphere around them — even when they can no longer respond.

Consider adding:

• soft worship or instrumental music
• verses or prayers
• meaningful items or scents
• gentle lighting
• familiar voices

People die the way they lived. If your mom hated scented lotion, then please do not apply it to her now. If Dad listened to the sports channel 24-7, turn it on. Alternately if Dad hated sports – do not torture him with ESPN playing all day.

When your loved one can no longer communicate, it will be up to you to guess what they would like. Peace is part of comfort care.

5. A Final Encouragement

You are not expected to create perfection.

Homes are messy. Families are tired. Life is still happening around you.

God meets us in our ordinary spaces — living rooms, bedrooms, and quiet corners where love does its deepest work.

You’re doing a beautiful job.

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This article is part two in a four-part series that explains hospice in a clear, simple way—what it is, what it isn’t, what visits look like, what families often don’t realize, and what happens after death. My hope is that this gives you clarity and confidence as you navigate this season.

If you have missed part one “What Hospice is and Isn’t” you may read it here.

What Happens at the First Visit

The first hospice visit is usually calm and simple. Families are often nervous before we arrive, but by the end of that visit, most people say they feel relieved and much more supported.

The goal is to understand what the patient needs right now and to help the family feel prepared, informed, and cared for.

Here’s what typically happens:

We Review the Medical History and Current Symptoms

We look at the patient’s diagnoses, recent changes, hospital stays, and overall decline. We talk about pain, breathing, appetite, sleep, confusion—anything that helps us understand the full picture.

We Go Through the Medications Together

We review every medication the patient is taking and decide what is still helpful. Some medications can be stopped if they no longer benefit the patient, and others may be added for comfort. This is always a conversation—never a demand.

We Teach the Family What to Expect

We explain what’s normal, what’s not, and which changes you may see as the condition progresses. We answer every question—even the ones you’re afraid to ask.

We Build a Comfort Plan

Together we decide what the goals are: less pain, easier breathing, better rest, less anxiety, fewer emergencies, and more peace in the home. Everything is tailored to the patient and the family.

We Order Equipment and Supplies

If the patient needs a hospital bed, oxygen, wipes, pads, briefs, chux (incontinence pads for the bed), or comfort medications, we order them right away. These items are delivered to the home, usually within 24 hours.

We Listen

This is the heart of hospice. We listen to the family’s fears, concerns, hopes, and priorities so the entire care plan aligns with the patient’s wishes. The first visit is not rushed. It’s simply the beginning of a partnership where you don’t have to do this alone.

What Weekly Hospice Care Looks Like

Hospice care has a steady rhythm. It’s supportive without being overwhelming, and flexible enough to change as the patient’s needs change. Families are often surprised by how calm and predictable it feels once everything is in place.

Here’s what a typical week may look like:

Nurse Visits (1-3 times weekly)

Your nurse checks symptoms, adjusts medications, and teaches the family what to expect next. In addition to clinical care, the nurse explains changes, prevents emergencies, updates the doctor, and makes sure the home environment is safe and comfortable.

If the patient begins to decline, nurse visits increase immediately. You are never limited—the plan adapts to the patient.

Your primary nurse will quickly become one of your most trusted guides. Families often say, “We don’t know what we would have done without our nurse.”

Hospice Aide Visits a Few Times a Week

Aides provide personal care that brings tremendous comfort. Aides provide some of the most comforting support families receive. In addition to bathing and grooming, they:

• keep the patient clean and comfortable
• wash hair or shave if the patient desires
• gently reposition for comfort
• offer warm conversation and calm presence
• help families feel less alone in the physical care

Your hospice aide is an incredible resource and will show you practical tips for caring for your loved one. It’s no surprise families often say, “We couldn’t do this without them.”

Social Worker Support as Needed

The social worker cares for the whole family. Beyond emotional support, they help with:

• advance directives
• difficult conversations
• caregiver burnout
• family conflict or stress
• discussing future planning
• community resources
• placement decisions if needed

Some weeks you may need them more; some weeks less — it’s always based on your needs. Your social worker brings practical help and emotional steadiness, guiding your family through paperwork, planning, and the heavy moments. Many families share, “We didn’t realize how much we needed our social worker until we met them.”

Optional Chaplain Visits

Hospice chaplains do not push religion and do not impose beliefs. Their role is to support your beliefs and your family’s spiritual needs—whatever they are. They can offer:

• prayer
• scripture (if you want)
• listening
• quiet conversation
• emotional grounding during hard moments
• help finding meaning and peace

They are patient, respectful professionals who walk alongside families in the way that feels right for you. Visits can be regular, occasional, or declined entirely. All choices are respected. Hospice chaplains offer emotional and spiritual support that meets your family exactly where you are. Families often say, “We didn’t expect to love our chaplain this much.”

Medication and Supply Deliveries

A big part of hospice care is making sure you have the right tools and supplies in the home. Hospice helps provide medical equipment, comfort medications, and many daily-care items so families can focus on caregiving rather than logistics.

Medical Equipment

Hospice provides essential medical equipment such as hospital beds, oxygen supplies, wheelchairs, walkers, bedside commodes, and other items that support comfort and safety. These are delivered directly to your home and adjusted as the patient’s needs change. Families never need to worry about arranging deliveries or pickups — hospice handles it all.

Comfort Medications

Comfort medications are delivered as needed and adjusted based on symptoms. This can include medications for pain, shortness of breath, anxiety, nausea, and restlessness. Your nurse monitors symptoms closely and works with the hospice doctor to ensure your loved one always has what they need. Hospice manages refills and orders so families never have to worry about running out.

Daily Care Supplies

Hospice also supplements many daily-care items such as diapers, pads, wipes, barrier creams, and nutritional drinks like Ensure or Boost. These items help ease the financial and caregiving burden, but every agency differs in the brands and amounts they supply.

This support is not meant to fully replace what you purchase for your loved one — it’s simply there to lighten the load and make day-to-day care a little easier.

Behind-the-Scenes Team Communication

A lot of hospice coordination happens quietly in the background. Your nurse is constantly communicating with the hospice doctor or nurse practitioner, the aide, the social worker, and the chaplain (if involved). This ensures everyone stays updated and working toward the same goals.

Every two weeks, the entire hospice team meets to review your loved one’s care, discuss any changes, and make sure the plan still aligns with the patient’s needs and wishes.

This is one of the main reasons having a primary nurse is so important. Your primary nurse becomes the steady voice who knows your loved one well, understands the full picture, and keeps the whole team united and informed.

24/7 Phone and Emergency Support

Hospice support doesn’t end when the scheduled visits are done. You can call anytime—nights, weekends, holidays—and a nurse will answer. They can talk you through what you’re seeing, help you decide what’s needed, and come out for a visit if necessary.

You are never alone, no matter the day or hour.

Wrapping Up Part Two: What Comes Next

Understanding what hospice looks like week to week can make the journey feel far less overwhelming. I hope this gave you a clearer sense of what to expect week by week. If anything feels confusing or overwhelming, please reach out—you’re not walking this alone.

Now that you know the rhythm of care, the next article explains the things families don’t realize about hospice—but should.

Read Part Three here: Things Families Don’t Know About Hospice – But Should

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